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Being gay/homosexual
Being gay/homosexual
I hate it when people judge gays/homosexuals. I mean, they're also humans right? Being gay is just just a personal preference, but why do we seem to get judged because of that? Well, some people regard it as 'sick' 'gross' 'disgusting', Imagine walking down the streets and there is 2 guys kissing in front of you. How would you feel? Some people would feel offended by the fact that they're kissing in public while some others might be offended by the fact that they're not a boy and a girl. Put yourself in their shoes, what if you were the one that is gay? No offence but do you wanted to be criticized by people and looked down upon by people just because you're that way?
Love is love. No matter what race, religion, height, weight, size, age, skin tone. Don't judge.
Did i mention they are the cutest couple ever?
Love is love. No matter what race, religion, height, weight, size, age, skin tone. Don't judge.
Did i mention they are the cutest couple ever?
Society/Judging
The thing about society is that whatever you do, you'll get judged. It’s pretty strange how people actually take the time and notice you to judge you, but some people are really that free I guess. They don’t ever consider other people’s feelings and they think that their little comment wouldn’t hurt at all. Let me tell you, it would hurt. It would hurt a lot. Don’t forget, they’re humans too. We’re all only human and just trying to get through life and be done with it. It’s pretty tough when people expect you to please them when you’re busy living your life. Besides, people don’t know what you have been through and all the experiences you had gone through.
The thing about society is that whatever you do, you'll get judged. It’s pretty strange how people actually take the time and notice you to judge you, but some people are really that free I guess. They don’t ever consider other people’s feelings and they think that their little comment wouldn’t hurt at all. Let me tell you, it would hurt. It would hurt a lot. Don’t forget, they’re humans too. We’re all only human and just trying to get through life and be done with it. It’s pretty tough when people expect you to please them when you’re busy living your life. Besides, people don’t know what you have been through and all the experiences you had gone through.
Self-harm/cutting issues
When you first read this title, what do you think I’m going to say? Maybe the first thing that came to your mind would be ‘attention-seeking’. Well, it’s hard to say whether people see you as someone who likes attention-seeking or are you really upset or not. Honestly, I can’t say that everyone cuts/self-harm because they are upset. Some people really do for attention, but I don’t mean it in a bad way. More like they have no one to confide their troubles/secrets to and they just want someone to listen to their problems. We all need someone to just be there for us, never leave us and are always supporting us. Alright I shall cut the chase, cutting is like putting a blade to your skin and slicing it open. I’m not exaggerating but yes it’s somewhat like that and obviously blood comes out if you cut deep enough. It’s nothing to brag about either. It’s painful, it’s goddamn painful and why the fuck would anyone brag about that shit? And people who cut obviously need someone to be there for them too. Different people have different ways of expressing pain, don’t judge someone without knowing their stories behind doing so. I get confronted a lot about this. People would ask me why I do that, who made me do it and they would also call me an attention-seeker and I’m stupid for harming myself. I know probably some of you are going to be like ‘since cutting doesn’t solve any problems, they why are you cutting? You get hurt and in the end nothing is solved’
Self harm is self harm, whether it's a scratch, a cut, a punch, or anything like that. It shouldn't be glamorized. It's not a fad, nor a phase. So next time you want to tell someone to kill themselves, think about this: how would you feel if its on the news that the kid who you told to die, actually took their own life. Honestly, think about how your words are going to affect someone before you say them.
When you first read this title, what do you think I’m going to say? Maybe the first thing that came to your mind would be ‘attention-seeking’. Well, it’s hard to say whether people see you as someone who likes attention-seeking or are you really upset or not. Honestly, I can’t say that everyone cuts/self-harm because they are upset. Some people really do for attention, but I don’t mean it in a bad way. More like they have no one to confide their troubles/secrets to and they just want someone to listen to their problems. We all need someone to just be there for us, never leave us and are always supporting us. Alright I shall cut the chase, cutting is like putting a blade to your skin and slicing it open. I’m not exaggerating but yes it’s somewhat like that and obviously blood comes out if you cut deep enough. It’s nothing to brag about either. It’s painful, it’s goddamn painful and why the fuck would anyone brag about that shit? And people who cut obviously need someone to be there for them too. Different people have different ways of expressing pain, don’t judge someone without knowing their stories behind doing so. I get confronted a lot about this. People would ask me why I do that, who made me do it and they would also call me an attention-seeker and I’m stupid for harming myself. I know probably some of you are going to be like ‘since cutting doesn’t solve any problems, they why are you cutting? You get hurt and in the end nothing is solved’
Self harm is self harm, whether it's a scratch, a cut, a punch, or anything like that. It shouldn't be glamorized. It's not a fad, nor a phase. So next time you want to tell someone to kill themselves, think about this: how would you feel if its on the news that the kid who you told to die, actually took their own life. Honestly, think about how your words are going to affect someone before you say them.
Starving (so called ‘diet’)
Do you really want to end up like her above?
For the sake of you guys, I went to check the dictionary for the actual meaning of anorexia and bulimia. Thank me seriously. Alright so here are the meanings.
Anorexia- A psychological disorder characterized by fear of becoming fat and refusal to eat (also known as anorexia nervosa).
Bulimia- Disorder characterized by compulsive overeating followed by vomiting.
Yes, so those are the basic meanings of those 2 words. But I really don’t know anyone that suffer from those 2 diseases. But I know ideally what is it about. Eat moderately, exercise frequently, don’t consume so much oily foods. Don’t starve yourself, you all are still young souls and we should all live life the way you guys want it to be like. Fuck everything.
Do you really want to end up like her above?
For the sake of you guys, I went to check the dictionary for the actual meaning of anorexia and bulimia. Thank me seriously. Alright so here are the meanings.
Anorexia- A psychological disorder characterized by fear of becoming fat and refusal to eat (also known as anorexia nervosa).
Bulimia- Disorder characterized by compulsive overeating followed by vomiting.
Yes, so those are the basic meanings of those 2 words. But I really don’t know anyone that suffer from those 2 diseases. But I know ideally what is it about. Eat moderately, exercise frequently, don’t consume so much oily foods. Don’t starve yourself, you all are still young souls and we should all live life the way you guys want it to be like. Fuck everything.
Hope
Don’t you just want to scream your fucking lungs out when people judge you or assume that you do things? Don’t you just get really hurt when people insult you? They’re like pointing out your flaws as if you don’t know them well enough. Some people think saying a few words can make youhappy and they think you can instantly cheer up. You need someone to be there for you always, and that’s why best friends exist. Don’t feel down or hopeless, each one of you out there has someone loving you. There would always be someone who might be always be behind you, supporting you. Don’t lose hope. You should really seek help if you’re suffering from the above problems, go to a counselor, call different hotlines. You need help, don’t hurt yourself anymore. Okay this seems like irony but I mean what I say alright. I care about all you guys out there, every single one of you and thank you for taking time to read this. I know it seems very long but I appreciate the effort taken. if you know anyone that needs help, advise them to get help okay.
Xo.
P.S/ I want to be a counsellor, teacher or a psychologist when I grow up because I want to help kids with problems like this. ^_^
Oh yea, formspring me and tell me how did this post go. Comments would be much appreciated, no negative comments. THANKS :-)!
Don’t you just want to scream your fucking lungs out when people judge you or assume that you do things? Don’t you just get really hurt when people insult you? They’re like pointing out your flaws as if you don’t know them well enough. Some people think saying a few words can make youhappy and they think you can instantly cheer up. You need someone to be there for you always, and that’s why best friends exist. Don’t feel down or hopeless, each one of you out there has someone loving you. There would always be someone who might be always be behind you, supporting you. Don’t lose hope. You should really seek help if you’re suffering from the above problems, go to a counselor, call different hotlines. You need help, don’t hurt yourself anymore. Okay this seems like irony but I mean what I say alright. I care about all you guys out there, every single one of you and thank you for taking time to read this. I know it seems very long but I appreciate the effort taken. if you know anyone that needs help, advise them to get help okay.
Xo.
P.S/ I want to be a counsellor, teacher or a psychologist when I grow up because I want to help kids with problems like this. ^_^
Oh yea, formspring me and tell me how did this post go. Comments would be much appreciated, no negative comments. THANKS :-)!
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